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My dh's cousin had sex with her 13 year old sons best friend (also 13). She served 3 years, was released, and says she is a completely different person now. She says she knows she was wrong.
I don't understand how she don't know it was wrong before, by now she does. Dh thinks I'm judging her too harshly.
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I tend to think so but if by some weird chance they aren't, I'm not willing to find out.
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If they did it once they will again. IMO -
I don't know the exact statistics (though from what I recall it is not favorable to the offender) but I will always be suspicious and will certainly not allow any of my kids near them alone.
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I still wouldn't want her around my kids. At best, she has some impulse control problems, at worst she's a pedophile.
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She is gross and I wouldn't want her around my kids! -
Some can be reformed or rehabilitated but the ones I have been around are not. They continue to exhibit the habits of a molester even after being in jail.
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a grown ass woman had sex with a 13 yr old child, no your not being to harsh! I wouldnt have her near my kids....sick pervert
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I think it's twisted that your dh is standing up for her....
I do not believe that it matters whether she "knows" or not anymore. She shouldn't be around children, period.
ETA: She's a sexual predator, not just an offender.
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No, I believe they can change, although I wouldn't take that chance myself. -
He was really upset with me for saying anything negative about her! It floored me! This woman chose to have sex with a child... 3 times!
No, she cannot babysit our children.
Quoting Mama2ETA:
 I think it's twisted that your dh is standing up for her....
I do not believe that it matters whether she "knows" or not anymore. She shouldn't be around children, period.
ETA: She's a sexual predator, not just an offender.