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i woudl sit him down and tell him that there is still a slim chance that you could get pregnant...i think i read that sperm can survive for up to three days in some cases so when you get close to ovulation he needs to be careful abt that if he truly doesnt want anymore. now if he just doesnt want the pressure of 'trying' and is really just saying he wants to wait because of the emotional toll it takes when you are crossing fingers every month and the fear from the miscarriage he may have then tell him you are ok with that too (if you are). ask him to just say what he really wants.... A- try B- wing it and what will be will be or C- wait. Whatever he chooses he needs to stick to it unless he states otherwise. Also tell him that you are worried abt how he would take the news if you were to come up pregnant now. be honest with him abt your fears in that area and then as him to be honest with you abt his.
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Lol thank you ladies. I definitely wouldn't mind getting pregnant but it should be something we both want. I'll talk to him tonight. But, does anyone know if unprotected sex on the schedule I described can result in pregnancy? I'm usually regular. No I'm not asking you to tell me if I'm pregnant, I'm just trying to find out if this is something that can and does happen so I can prepare myself to potentially have to tell him and deal with concern of a repeat m/c
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You can get pregnant anytime you have sex.
Quoting christinad612:
Lol thank you ladies. I definitely wouldn't mind getting pregnant but it should be something we both want. I'll talk to him tonight. But, does anyone know if unprotected sex on the schedule I described can result in pregnancy? I'm usually regular. No I'm not asking you to tell me if I'm pregnant, I'm just trying to find out if this is something that can and does happen so I can prepare myself to potentially have to tell him and deal with concern of a repeat m/c -
I read it can live upto 6 days in the tubes.
Quoting mcwife86:
i woudl sit him down and tell him that there is still a slim chance that you could get pregnant...i think i read that sperm can survive for up to three days in some cases so when you get close to ovulation he needs to be careful abt that if he truly doesnt want anymore. now if he just doesnt want the pressure of 'trying' and is really just saying he wants to wait because of the emotional toll it takes when you are crossing fingers every month and the fear from the miscarriage he may have then tell him you are ok with that too (if you are). ask him to just say what he really wants.... A- try B- wing it and what will be will be or C- wait. Whatever he chooses he needs to stick to it unless he states otherwise. Also tell him that you are worried abt how he would take the news if you were to come up pregnant now. be honest with him abt your fears in that area and then as him to be honest with you abt his.