Now a lot of you might say it's not my business & it's NOT! However I know that this is NOT right at all this could ruin this boys life, I just think this is soo unfair... I'm not saying what he did was right because it wasn't but saying he raped her when she said with her own mouth she offered oral sex to him, is just wrong in soo many ways! There is no changing my cousins mind tho, that's her story and she's sticking to it.... Sooo I wanted to know what are your. Opinions on this ?
by Due9December 5, 2012 at 10:33 PM
It is very, very wrong for your cousin to proceed with this process knowing he did not rape her. Very wrong. I would try my best to talk her out of it.
by mamakenziDecember 5, 2012 at 10:42 PM
You need to report what she told you ASAP this is a young boys life here! She lied and this boy is facing serious charges!
December 5, 2012 at 10:47 PM
I think you need to call the police and that boy's lawyer. Girl, that is a rape charge. That is the rest of his life. He will have no real career, he will never be able to have a nice place to live, he will very well end up in jail, and be labeled as a sex offender the rest of his life, because of a lie from that girl and her mother. DO NOT be part of the problem. You know the truth. God help your soul if you choose to keep it hidden.
by DarlaHoodDecember 5, 2012 at 10:51 PM
It actually is your business because she chose to tell you the truth. You have to tell the truth and let the justice system deal with it. If they are pretty much the same age and it was consensual, then he shouldn't have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.
I totally agree. I couldn't live with myself knowing the truth.
I know would be hard but I would contact the police and tell them what she told me. I couldn't live with myself if I knew that information and kept it to myself.
December 5, 2012 at 11:30 PM
You need to go and tell what you know. It's not right for either of them (mother or daughter) to get by with a lie. The girl should have told her mother the truth to begin. I feel sorry for the boy.
December 5, 2012 at 11:50 PM
I say you did the right thing, that boy could face jail time for her lie, sad so many girls will have oral sex or sex with a boy and scream rape or some other stupid story,, because they dont want their parents to be mad at them.