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jenking04
Would you tell her??
November 18, 2012 at 2:41 AM

So my EX has an STD that he says is HPV he says he got it from me but we have been together off and on for 10 years and it just showed up in the last year. And all my paps have been clean sence i was 18 after they scraped my cervix of warts from HPV. I want to tell her cause i think its wrong that he is out sleeping with another girl without telling her about his problem. Any advice??

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  • jenking04
    November 18, 2012 at 2:53 AM

    BUMP!

  • EAzizM
    by EAzizM
    November 18, 2012 at 2:55 AM
    I thought you couldn't cure hpv and it always remained in your system?? Idk
  • jenking04
    November 18, 2012 at 2:58 AM


    Quoting EAzizM:

    I thought you couldn't cure hpv and it always remained in your system?? Idk


    It does, But i dont understand why after 10 years of being together he just now showing signs of it with in this year.

  • sonnyswoman75
    November 18, 2012 at 2:59 AM
    I do think she should know
  • jenking04
    November 18, 2012 at 2:59 AM

    And i also know that he has been with several different girls in our 10 year relationship. there were a couple times we had broken up and he would slep with every girl he could and there was a couple he was with while he was still with me

  • EAzizM
    by EAzizM
    November 18, 2012 at 2:59 AM
    For some people some stds take time to show up, even years.

    Quoting jenking04:




    Quoting EAzizM:

    I thought you couldn't cure hpv and it always remained in your system?? Idk



    It does, But i dont understand why after 10 years of being together he just now showing signs of it with in this year.

  • jenking04
    November 18, 2012 at 3:00 AM


    Quoting sonnyswoman75:

    I do think she should know


    I have her number. Do you think i should text her and let her know?? Or leave it alone and hope that he steps up and tells her the truth (but knowing him he wont)

  • sonnyswoman75
    November 18, 2012 at 3:08 AM
    No something that serious needs to be told. she needs to be aware.

    Quoting jenking04:



    Quoting sonnyswoman75:

    I do think she should know


    I have her number. Do you think i should text her and let her know?? Or leave it alone and hope that he steps up and tells her the truth (but knowing him he wont)

  • jenking04
    November 18, 2012 at 3:16 AM


    Quoting sonnyswoman75:

    No something that serious needs to be told. she needs to be aware.

    Quoting jenking04:

     


    Quoting sonnyswoman75:

    I do think she should know


    I have her number. Do you think i should text her and let her know?? Or leave it alone and hope that he steps up and tells her the truth (but knowing him he wont)

    So you think i should text her like tomorrow or something??

  • happy41ce
    November 18, 2012 at 3:18 AM
    Tell her. Would you wanna know if it were the other way around?

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