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Hey everyone, I am not fake, I have been on cafemom before but it was a very long time ago and I can't remember any of my info so I made a new one (just got re-married so I needed a fresh start anyways :))
Okay so my step kids just got here from there moms for the weekend and at dinner sd said that her brother had a sleepover last night with the girl he has a crush on at his bm's house. She said they slept in the same bed. He is 6 and the girl was 7. I find this completely and totally inappropriate. Am I wrong?
Update:
So I am reading the responses and just want to clarify a few things. I understand I am the "step mom". I am not poking my nose in her (BM's) business. I just wanted to get ya'lls opinions to see if I was the only one who see's it wrong..
His older sister also said when she walked into the bedroom the girl was sleeping on top of him!!! I think that's just asking for problems later on in life. It may have been meant to be "innocent" but I just find it totally not okay for them to be sharing a bed!
Thanks to everyone for their input. I am not going to say anything to BM, because I agree with ya'll that it's not my place but if it continues to happen my hubby will address it as he see's fit :)
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No you are not wrong at all, Id be pissed about that and having a talk with the mom. Alittle young to be starting that and the kids thinking its ok with it
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That is not appropriate.
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F*ck no you're not wrong. Completely inappropriate.
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I wouldn't allow it.
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what!?! That is not okay. Stupid mothers.
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Yeah when they were telling us I was thinking wtf!!!!!
Quoting mom2the.rescue:
what!?! That is not okay. Stupid mothers.
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And sorry I made this post on my phone so I know the grammar is completely wrong :(
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Gosh I don't even let kids of the opposite sex play in the bedroom past age 7 ( I think it sets the Precedent) -
Yes, it's inappropriate.
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No you are not wrong at all. I would never allow that to happen. I realize u are not the mother that did allow that...just sayin'.