Gift GETTING! I get tons of gifts for my kids and they're all either WRONG sizes when I specifically said which sizes or duplicates. Also, I get tons of little bath sets that are from the $5 shelf at Walmart. They say it's the thought that counts and I agree. Those gifts though are absolutley thought LESS. I know you just grabbed 5 off the shelf in 5 minutes stuck them all in bags and handed me one. It's not the monetary value I care about. I'd a rather had something made that you know I like or a $5 gift card to Starbucks. Even though it's only $5 and it gets just one drink, if you know me, you'd know that would make me so happy. You'd also know I don't use any soap that's not antibacterial. So the next following days are spent in the return lines.
None of those stress me out ... you need another button on your poll!!!
Family stress ... just don't let it get to me; it's not worth it
Gift giving ... I get ideas and go by that; again, it's something not worth stressing over. If I can't find what is suggested easily enough, I'll give money or a gift card & let the kid (it's always something for a kid in this instance) find it!
Breaking the budget ... no stress here. We set a budget we can afford and just stick to it. We tell our kids what the budget for the grandkids is when we ask for suggestions on what they want/need, so they know; they are fine with that ... when you have 5 kids & 16 grandkids, not to mention other family members & a very select few friends you buy for, you have to set limits and stick to them.
Party perfection ... don't have parties! No stress there.
Weight gain ... already weigh too much, so it's always part of my worries, but I just don't let it stress me out anymore. Not worth it.
My mom not being around. She passed away recently. Also, I dread work as always. I work retail so although I love the holiday season I soooo do not enjoy work. Then also the family stress/drama as always.