dd is so mad.. She lives with her bf and his parents. She thinks this
is so wrong and she wanted me to post and get you guys' opinions on
of his parents don't work. They have their home registered as a church
so they pay no taxes even though they do no church type activities at
all there. His mom gets child support for the bf and his little brother.
The step father gets disability.
bf gets 1,000/month to go to college from the veterens benifits because
the step dad is disabled. When he got his check this month (it's the
first check, school just started) His parents insisted that her bf give
them half of it. Then bf got a student loan of 680.00 that he will end
up having to pay back. It came on a debit-type card. Yesterday, his
parents decided they wanted to go on a date day. His mom went in his
room and demanded his card. Then she wanted the code. Bf told her that
it was his money for school. She told him that she would leave him some.
were gone all day long! When they got home last night, bf asked for his
card back and my dd said that he had to beg for it! When he got it back
his mom told him that she had left him 300 on it. They had spent over
half of it.
bf just went and got his driver's license and his parents promised him a
pick up that they had bought for him. He passed but they won't let him
drive it. They still have to get up 3 hours early so they can catch the
bus into town. They go to school M,W, and Fridays. His step dad insists
all of a sudden that he wants to go fishing every morning and needs the
truck. Does any of this sound right to you?
top of all of this, my dd is resopnsible for cleaning the house and
they are in charge of the cooking dinner 5 days out of the week. DD told
me that they never leave their bedroom. DD and her bf are not allowed
to close the bedroom door at any time and she found out that the other
morning, the step dad got up early and was walking around nude while she
slept with the bedroom door open right across the hall. These people
really disturb me. What are your thoughts? Am I over reacting?
How old is your dd? Does it sound right no but so much sounds wrong it would take to long to type out. Does your dd and the bf have jobs? If they don't agree with the parents rules just find somewhere else to live.