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My dd is so mad.. She lives with her bf and his parents. She thinks this is so wrong and she wanted me to post and get you guys' opinions on this:
Both of his parents don't work. They have their home registered as a church so they pay no taxes even though they do no church type activities at all there. His mom gets child support for the bf and his little brother. The step father gets disability.
Her bf gets 1,000/month to go to college from the veterens benifits because the step dad is disabled. When he got his check this month (it's the first check, school just started) His parents insisted that her bf give them half of it. Then bf got a student loan of 680.00 that he will end up having to pay back. It came on a debit-type card. Yesterday, his parents decided they wanted to go on a date day. His mom went in his room and demanded his card. Then she wanted the code. Bf told her that it was his money for school. She told him that she would leave him some.
They were gone all day long! When they got home last night, bf asked for his card back and my dd said that he had to beg for it! When he got it back his mom told him that she had left him 300 on it. They had spent over half of it.
Her bf just went and got his driver's license and his parents promised him a pick up that they had bought for him. He passed but they won't let him drive it. They still have to get up 3 hours early so they can catch the bus into town. They go to school M,W, and Fridays. His step dad insists all of a sudden that he wants to go fishing every morning and needs the truck. Does any of this sound right to you?
On top of all of this, my dd is resopnsible for cleaning the house and they are in charge of the cooking dinner 5 days out of the week. DD told me that they never leave their bedroom. DD and her bf are not allowed to close the bedroom door at any time and she found out that the other morning, the step dad got up early and was walking around nude while she slept with the bedroom door open right across the hall. These people really disturb me. What are your thoughts? Am I over reacting?
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Over reacting? No, not IMO. That family sounds like a piece of work. Is there any way they could stay with you? -
My daughter would not be there. -
My thoughts...why is your daughter living there? You'd think she'd have more respect for herself?
Other then that they can choose to live their life any way they want. Not everyone does the right thing.
It's probably time that he chooses to leave as well.
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Can you offer your place to them? They sound trashy and in no way would I allow my dd to be disrespected. -
How old is your dd? Does it sound right no but so much sounds wrong it would take to long to type out. Does your dd and the bf have jobs? If they don't agree with the parents rules just find somewhere else to live. -
How old is your dd and the bf?
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We would not allow the bf to live here but she can come home anytime..
Quoting NyiaBaby216:
Over reacting? No, not IMO. That family sounds like a piece of work. Is there any way they could stay with you? -
I didn't want her to go in the first place, she chose to.
Quoting abbysmommy429:
My daughter would not be there. -
she needs to get out of that house. the boy too if he can.
What they are doing is illegal.
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Then she can choose to leave. It's not her house, they can what they want.
Quoting Erna2:
I didn't want her to go in the first place, she chose to.
Quoting abbysmommy429:
My daughter would not be there.