My husband is having to do this with his parents and brother. It is too long ot get into, but my inlaws want to make my husband feel bad about himself all of the time. I cannot stand to see him like this. So we are having to do this for our sanity and happiness.
My dad, for 2 years now, havent spoken to him or let his see my daughter, He trys to contact me via email, but i never respond, he knows better then to ask the rest of my family ofr address/ number of mine. All of my daughters bio fathers family,
YEP.. my mom.. she lives in a different state and she thinks that if we dont answer the phone that she should call the cops to check on us. all it took was ONE DAY....one freekin day of not answering the phone and the cops are at my door.. the woman calls at least 5 times a day lol..
I could personally never do it unless they did something to me personally or my son or DH that would cause me to go apeshit. My family (here in FL) was all I had when my mother was killed when I was 3 so putting distance between us is something I can't even fathom...
But if it'll bring peace and happiness between you two.. You gota do what you gota do.