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Are your kids allowed into you and your hubby's bedroom without having to ask?
by Anonymous
March 21, 2014 at 5:22 PM
Are they allowed in and out as they please?

ETA: To some moms that say that their room are "always off limits", why is that?


  • pseudomamma
    March 21, 2014 at 6:22 PM
    If the door is opened, they can come and go as they please. If the door is shut, they better knock. The 4 older ones learned that the hard way.
  • mom2ryneandsam
    March 21, 2014 at 7:14 PM

    If we are in they they can come in if not no they can't go into our room cause they like to play with stuff in the bathroom 

  • momofthem311
    March 21, 2014 at 7:18 PM
    If the door is open, of course. If is closed it's locked and they couldn't get in anyway. They knock
  • nurse1997
    March 21, 2014 at 7:39 PM

    I try but it always dont happen :) Hubby is always freaked out that they are waking up durning sex it is like hell it's 3 in the morning !!! He's not adjust to well to the new set up of the bedrooms of are new home that the dummy picked and had built !

  • waytomanykids10
    March 21, 2014 at 7:39 PM
    Only when the door is open and we are in there.
  • momoftwo0406
    March 21, 2014 at 7:41 PM
    Only if the door is open and they have permission. My room is normally always off limits
  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    March 21, 2014 at 7:43 PM
    Yes, never ever thought about making the room off limits. Sex is later or middle of the night or if they are gone.
  • 1frog
    by 1frog
    March 21, 2014 at 7:53 PM

     Yes, when the door is open he always could come and go as he pleased. DH was afraid he'd walk in on us having sex and pounded it into his head to knock if it was closed. It worked, we never got caught, our privacy was respected and he still felt welcome.

  • falloutboy
    March 21, 2014 at 7:54 PM
    No. He likes to get into our stuff.
  • beckolette
    March 21, 2014 at 8:32 PM

    Children should be able to get to you at any time you are in your bedroom. Understandable that a child would have to knock during sometimes, OK but when you are done you need to unlock and open the door. During the times you are not in there, yes a child who doesn't understand boundries yet, a shut door may be neccesary. 

    We just always put the dog and cat out and shut the door. Then got up and let them back in and got up for the day, since we were morning people. 

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