My little girls father, my boyfriend, is always out and about. He goes to college on Tuesday and Thursdays, works on Wed, Fri, and Sat for a few hours. Here lately he is always wanting to do something when he wants and never seems to want to be home with me and kaylee. All he wants to do is play golf, video games, computer, basketball... I am a sahm for now and do everything even when he's not working...
Is this normal? It's really starting to get old.
When we had our daighter my husband doted upon her, even going out and coming home with really cute things for her room. In all the years we were together he NEVER ignored her and he would always choose to spend time with her, even now that she's an adult, rather than doing the things you mention. Don't settle. Tell hubby you need more support and that his daughter needs her dad.
It's not normal for me, I believe guys should have thier free time and hang out with the guys! But I think on days like Sunday should be spent with just the family, there isn't a need to spend time with friends on that day! I would tell him how you feel and give him days he should be home and that he needs to be putting his family first!