My husband and I have just celebrated our sixth wedding anniversary and we have been together 10 years....we've only had one argument in our entire relationship....we were seriously made for each other. i can honestly say i am very happily married.
Well, I am Darlene just returned to Cafe Mom because my life turned upside down.. been Married 10 yrs to a chronic relapsing alcoholic. been separated from him 6 yrs of those 10, in the end he was living alone trying to get back with me but cheating all along. I never looked for another man to infuse in my life he and I have a 9 yr old son who lives with me and I have a 17 yr old daughter from my first marriage she also lives with me and I get no support from either dad. about a year ago an old boyfriend from 24 yrs ago found me on FB and I went to visit him in NYC never expecting in a few months of I guess dating to fall in love with him. My x-husband who I am still married to but separated 6 yrs is furious!!! says "we are still married!!!" I dont believe he has the right after what he did which is kind of in appropriate to say here lets just say his girlfriends werent "free" if you get my drift... I am a single mom just had 8 rods & pins put in my back 15 months ago from slipped disks.. I cant afford a divorce I can barely run this household in what disability gives me. basically should I feel guilty for this?? I dont think so... I am just so lost on what to do.. thanks for listening any advice would be taken.. thank you & God Bless ....Dee