The Cafe
I think so. I know if someone acts up or trolls to much they lose that privilege. But since, this feature is new in this group, I just thought it would be interesting to throw this question out there.
- Only group members can vote in this poll.
- 31% - Yes
- 51% - No
- 14% - It doesn't matter to me.
- 2% - Other
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LMAO- you are welcome! ;-)
Quoting Punkie74:
Well that just saved me a bunch of typing!! LOL
Quoting CountryLayne:
I'm sorry- but, if people are trying to contact you, then you would be at fault for that. It means you have given out entirely too much information at any given point.
Honestly, we are ALL anon here, unless we put ourselves out there for everyone to know. The more detailed information we give, the easier it is for people to figure out who we are.
The point is, the majority of people who use the anon button really ARE just trolls, trying to stir the pot. I'm not saying all- but most.
Quoting Anonymous:
That's an awfully narrow-minded view. Just because that's the only reason *you* can think of why someone would post anon does not mean that it's the *only* reason. Unless you are living in someone else's head and KNOW why they choose to post anon, you have no right to presume they're just being assholes. There are perfectly valid reasons for people to want to post anon. Some are looking to avoid stalkers, both out here in CM-world and IRL. I post anon because I have reason to believe that my sister and several other women with whom I have cut off contact due to their toxicity are also out here, and I don't want them to be able to use this site to try to contact me; there's a reason I cut off contact with them. Also, just because they someone posts anon does not mean they don't stand behind what they say. Again, being able to post anon gives some of us the opportunity to actually participate instead of just reading as we have done in the past.
Quoting Punkie74:
NOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Say it and stand behind it!!! There is no reason to post anonymously other than to act like an asshole!
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I think the in the bedroom one is ok to. Not every one wants people to know about their sex lives but want advice.
Quoting ack86:
It's fine for the confession group because youu can confess to something embarassing you wouldn't normally say to anyone. I don't think any other group needs it. -
No. I can see having it for a few groups when you need to ask advice about something you don't want people to know. But it is used to for abuse from what I have seen in the other group.
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It has it's place, but not in a social group
Quoting gypsy_rose:
I think the in the bedroom one is ok to. Not every one wants people to know about their sex lives but want advice.
Quoting ack86:
It's fine for the confession group because youu can confess to something embarassing you wouldn't normally say to anyone. I don't think any other group needs it. -
I'm not in that one so I forgot about it. That is another good one though.
Quoting gypsy_rose:
I think the in the bedroom one is ok to. Not every one wants people to know about their sex lives but want advice.
Quoting ack86:
It's fine for the confession group because youu can confess to something embarassing you wouldn't normally say to anyone. I don't think any other group needs it. -
Exactly, I guess they do not want this to be a social group any longer. I see postings seem to have gone down.
Quoting Punkie74:
It has it's place, but not in a social group
Quoting gypsy_rose:
I think the in the bedroom one is ok to. Not every one wants people to know about their sex lives but want advice.
Quoting ack86:
It's fine for the confession group because youu can confess to something embarassing you wouldn't normally say to anyone. I don't think any other group needs it.