some of our posts make it sound like bfing moms are angry, whewww, i thought this may be fun. I keep thinking now im pregnant again and going to be bfing I will have to put up with all the stupidity again. Might help some new mom's out there to share.
so stupid comments people make to breastfeeding mom's.
MY mil was the worst, she had twins and 5 kids total and feels bfing is a waste. (now i always covered up, nothing hanging out)
she would say ewww, are you going to do that in here cant you go someplace private?, is he still bfing? isnt he old enough for cows milk, he eats too often, that i wasnt giving him what he needed, that he is an anemic because i bfed him, she would literally harrass me every time
people always have to state why they didnt bf exclusively
always telling me they needed cereal or food to compensate
he wont know how to use a bottle or drink properly
its not proper to do that in front of your other boys'
they might not get enough air covered up like that....
and the stupidest ever while i was covered up at a bbq and bf son in rocker ---- IS THAT YOUR BABY???? no you moron i just randomly grabbed a baby here and stuck him on my tit
Lol, the air comment is funny. I don't remember anything stupid said to me other than "maybe he's allergic to breastmilk" when my second child really sick and we were figuring out what he wasn't tolerating in my diet.
When i cut dairy out for my first my mil said "so can you still nurse?"
Sad because she u lactose intolerant and her doctor told her she couldnt nurse because she doesnr drink milk and put her boys on soy formula
A nurse at the hospital where I gave birth told me I would never produce enough to feed my baby since she was 10.5lbs at birth. 14 months after, she was 33lbs and happy as can be. She's now 46inches and 48lbs, and 4 years old.
I think the meanest thing to say (which I was told by countless people until I stopped telling them I was going to BF) was "well you probably won't be able to so make sure you have lots of formula on hand so you don't have to run out and buy some when baby is screaming". Really? We lived in a major city, 5 min from the closest walmart and 1 mile from a gas station. If I absolutely needed to I could have had formula.
The dumbest thing I heard was, "I couldn't breastfeed because I didn't like milk and you have to drink milk to make milk" And sadly that is a common belief in this area.
I absolutely HATE IT when people say (when DD is fussing) "Oh, she wants boobies" It makes it sound so condescending and obnoxious. No, she wants comfort, she wants mom to be close to me, and she wants to eat!!