its kinda sad how most my "friends" disappeared after i have my youngest daughter and right now i was talking with my BD saying how soon ima end up losing it(like telling everyone how i really feel) since i have no one to talk to and keep everything inside.. his response was " really u have no one to talk to? u have all those friends on facebook and u cant talk to one of them about what ur thinking??" i told him that i try to hang out with them and they jst blow me off by saying they will come but end up doing something else with other friends and posting it on their facebook while im at home ready and waiting..at this point im jst tired of trying to hang out with ppl who dnt put in the effort to really hang out with me.. but as soon as i put on my facebook how it sucks not having friends EVERYONE is quick to put "im here for you" or "so im not a friend?...".... like really? who are these ppl trying to fool i been here living in the same house for almost 3 yrs now,home everyday and u cant stop by once to see if we are ok. if ur REAL FRIENDS like u say.. or jst to hang out with us... i really need to leave this city only wish i had the money to go
Once i found out i was pregnant every one seemed to fall off the edge of the planet until my baby shower then were all pissed when i decided not to invite most of them....your defiantly not the only one! Babies really scare people off apparently
Hell, the friends that iv got, i found on here. Yeah, there is no hanging out, but there is a lot of talking a picture sharing. I feel like iv met some true friends here that i can trust and talk to about anything. The people that you used to be "friends" with were never your friends if they just suddenly dropped like that.
I know just how you feel. I was 19 and everyone jumped ship except my husband and my family. And now 5 years later, some of those same "friends" are sending invites to their own baby showers and I throw them away because when I needed a friend, they weren't there. I definitely know how you feel.