I hate when i could be shopping and she is sitting inthr cart and people come by and are liking cooing over her. Like one women, young, came over by us and started tapping her face saying ohhhg cute! I was like excuse me wtf are you doing? She just walked away.
I feel you there. My MIL (who we don't speak to) was allowed to come to the hospital (by my DH, his choice, his mother) to see our son when he was born in 2010. I HATED her holding him. Partly because she reeked of cigarette smoke. Luckily she left soon :/ I don't know if he will let her come see the new one in March...
It made me nervous at first with ds, and I'm sure it will with the new baby too. Your instincts are protecting your baby, nothing wrong with that!
Yea, I dont know why but I dont like it if my mother in law holds her either. Idk it kind of feels like she is stealing her and mothering her.