i feel so insecured when i see my husband ex. and its weird that i felt so depressed when i see myself in the mirror. my friends told me that im still beatiful and i dont need any make over. sometimes, i dream about my husband and her ex. i woke up, crying. i talk to my husband and he only say that i little bit of POSSESIVE. so there are times that i dream about her ex. i cant help it to think about her ex. what should i do? so depressed this last few days..
by MommieBre21October 9, 2012 at 4:24 AM
Yup, been there, done that.
U need to luv ur self hunny or ur gonna push him away
by ALermanOctober 9, 2012 at 6:28 AM
You feel it cos you might project the ex better then you. It is wrong. Your personis with you. But if you have such dreams, it might be intuition that is really rarely wrong. What I think is you should make a list of issues in which you think the ex is better then you and work on them. It will both help you develop (there is reason) and make you more confident. And I think that impoving the looks (you have mentioned it) is much easier than changing smth else. Good luck to you, we all feel it from time to time!
by mrs.roman22October 14, 2012 at 9:52 PM
thanks a lot for the advices. it help me so much.. all i need to do is to learned to love my self. so i can't be insecure to anyone.. thanks everyone.
by -KC-October 14, 2012 at 11:06 PMLove yourself for who you are. Not satisfied? Work out, do something to boost your confidence. Im 36 weeks pregnant and still confident idc. I walk a lot, drink a lot of water etc... Dhs ex? Lets just say his friends even complement him that im the best looking woman he ever had. Hes with you not with her so keep your head up.
by BeachMama05October 14, 2012 at 11:20 PM
dont do that to yourself! he is with YOU for a reason!