moms with ex boyfriends who are the fathers of their children. I am currently with my boyfriend of a year, we live together and I have a 4 year old daughter. Her dad is in the picture, he has her 3 days a week and I was just curious if my boyfriends job relocates us I don't know what to do. My daughters dad would be furious if I tried to leave the state with her... but relocation is a possibility. Help!