If you see a post or reply that you believe is inappropriate or breaks tos, rather than comment on it, click the little red flag next to the poster's name or time they posted (it might be located in slightly different places depending on how you're accessing the site). Write a short reason for why you think the post or reply should be locked or deleted and hit submit. Commenting on the post itself as to it's inappropriatness is against group guidelines and really just bumps the post so more can see it and get sucked into the drama. I have my own opinions as to this rule, but it IS a rule, so whether or not we agree with it, we have to follow it.
If you understand, please bump so all our members can see. :)