I have a friend that I met through my brother almost 2
years ago. She has her own apartment she had her own car until we were
rear ended back in october she was staying with us because my home was
closer to her job and school. She's still here which isn't an issue,
she takes me to get my son from school when she can and I appreciate
it. I'm unemployed and living at home with my mom. My last job was
seasonal and it was overlapping with my sons school schedule and I
wasn't getting paid enough to pay somone to get him from school until my
mom got off work so i made the decision to not go back this year. I am
currently recieving fs and medical for my son and myself. the other day
she found some money in her pants pocket and just joking with her i
said "can I have some" she then says to me "No, go get a job". I let
that slide. She has been job hopping lately she has had 3 jobs this year
already me , her,and my mom were having a conversation the other day
and by me being older I was trying to explain to her that it doesn't
look good on a resume to have so many jobs in such a short time and she
says to me "Shut up you don't even have a job" I have been looking for a
job with no luck I haven't been getting any call backs for the jobs
that I've applied to so employment is a sensitive topic for me. She
has also been a little snippy with my son lately too. He doesn't like
to do his homework so one day he was complaining and whining a lil bit
and she says to him "can you be quiet I'm trying to study" but she was
getting ready to go to class and take a test but she was in the basement
that whole day shouldn't she have been trying to study then?
Then a few days ago she was on her laptop playing the sims and my son
got onto our desktop computer and turned on some music he likes maroon 5
and she says to him "turn that off I'm tired of listening to Maroon 5" I
haven't said anything because I don't want to look like I'm just being a b***h. Do I have the right to feel mad about it or am I just
overreacting? I would appreciate your answers ladies thank you in
I haven't had a roommate since college and I could never go back to that life, lol. It sounds like it's time for her to move out. Once you get to the point of irritating each other on a regular basis, the friendship has been compromised.
I think, when you have two people living together..ANY two people.. there are going to be idiosyncrasies and habits that you both have that just get on each other's nerves to no end. And I think that's normal. So I would be a bit more laid back about it unless she really started acting out, especially towards your son. I would definitely keep an eye on that... but as it is right now I think it's the normal stresses of living with someone.
Nevermind my earlier comment, then. It's time for her to go. I thought this was a roommate arrangement based on mutual need, or a mutual agreement, keeping the two of you on par with each other. Turns out that isn't the case. She has her own home, and her own car, so she is now your house GUEST. House guests acting as if they have any control whatsoever within your house.. no. Curb her.
Yes she does but for some reason she's still here.
wait.. she has a car and her own apartment? I'm confused.
she has both. I just think since my brother lives with us she wants to be up under him