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Mommy2beAB
Making the first move?
January 10, 2013 at 3:24 AM

I'd always enjoyed making the first move of interest towards guys, until I had a roommate who I thought was just a guy magnet to the max and her style was completely different. She led a kind of "He's just not that into you" cured mentality lol... and I have since followed the same cues, and have had success... Well, either way I have had success but I felt the latter way would keep me from people like my ex bc in that way "they chose to be with me"....but I'm just wondering what you other single ladies think. This is just for fun. I'm just bored and curious. 


I'm also wondering bc I met this guy that I thought I'd never get the chance to meet again the other night (he was my waiter once) and either he's easily intimidated, I talk too damn much when peacocking or he just isn't interested (youuu knooww I didn't get a two day later FB add or "Hey this blah blah" from a rando number). LOL I sound like such a psycho.... girls.....

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  • Mommy2beAB
    January 10, 2013 at 3:32 AM

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  • Mommy2beAB
    January 10, 2013 at 3:32 AM

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    January 10, 2013 at 3:32 AM

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  • dawnnamarie
    January 10, 2013 at 3:32 AM
    I always say to go for it. Just don't be clingy. Guys hate desperate and clingy
  • Mommy2beAB
    January 10, 2013 at 3:41 AM


    Quoting dawnnamarie:

    I always say to go for it. Just don't be clingy. Guys hate desperate and clingy

    See. That's what I'm telling myself also lol... I think Saturday I'll ask my mutual friend to come out and hint that he might as well stay home if he doesn't bring you know who! ;) haha.. And no worries I am not clingy and far from desperate! I just over analyze every thing. Ha thank you!

  • dawnnamarie
    January 10, 2013 at 3:45 AM
    Don't over analyze. That'll make you tense. Which will make it harder to have fun and be your charming self when you hang out with this guy!!

    Quoting Mommy2beAB:



    Quoting dawnnamarie:

    I always say to go for it. Just don't be clingy. Guys hate desperate and clingy

    See. That's what I'm telling myself also lol... I think Saturday I'll ask my mutual friend to come out and hint that he might as well stay home if he doesn't bring you know who! ;) haha.. And no worries I am not clingy and far from desperate! I just over analyze every thing. Ha thank you!

  • Mommy2beAB
    January 10, 2013 at 4:07 AM

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    January 10, 2013 at 4:07 AM

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  • MissTuree
    January 10, 2013 at 9:13 PM

    He may just not be interested. Maybe he's already talking to someone else and trying to see where that's going.

    When I was single I would just do whatever felt right in the moment. Different guys are well.....different and I would treat them as a unique individual.

  • Mommy2beAB
    January 11, 2013 at 5:00 AM
    Quoting MissTuree:

    He may just not be interested. Maybe he's already talking to someone else and trying to see where that's going.


    When I was single I would just do whatever felt right in the moment. Different guys are well.....different and I would treat them as a unique individual.




    Touché, my virtual friend, touché. Though, wwould you ask him out for Saturday night for a fun group outing to the casinos hypothetically speaking? 0:) either way I think I'll invite him out for just shits n giggles lol... I don't have a huge fear of rejection, it's no big deallll ha

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