Natural Birth & Parenting

Need BRUTALLY Honest Opinions ASAP!!!
November 12, 2012 at 6:54 PM
I need the kinda honestly that only strangers on the internet can provide. Be honest, even if it's mean I really want the truth!

I've got an interview in the morning. I got ridiculously fat after having my last child (lol, who gains after they have the baby???), so my clothes from when I worked with my older don't really fit. So in the replies I'll post the 2 options I've got. How bad is it?? In the first, the sweater is too bulky, so I'm going to try to find a new one tonight and nude tights might help. The second one I think I need better shoes...
Don't hold back!!


  • larissalarie
    November 12, 2012 at 10:10 PM

    And I really wasn't fishing for compliments, I swear. I'm just so paranoid about my size right now...hubby's actions certainly didn't help that insecurity any :-\ Thank you all for saying kind things though.
    This picture is me at my normal size, so you can see I'm quite a lot larger now.
  • hapababies
    November 12, 2012 at 10:12 PM
    Woohoo!!!!! Good luck :)

    Quoting larissalarie:

    It is!! I emailed my resume yesterday and got a phone call by 9:30 this morning :-)

    Quoting hapababies:

    Good luck :)

    Is it a real estate job interview?

  • Kyonarai
    November 13, 2012 at 3:56 PM

    I like the second one too

  • SadieJames
    November 13, 2012 at 4:01 PM

    I think you look great, period! I do like #2.  Need a picture of the new shoes! And I'm sorry your STBXH actions made you doubt yourself - you're a beautiful woman, excellent mother and all around good person (from what i can tell through the internet!) and he's a jackass - remember that.  

  • Jess0915
    November 13, 2012 at 4:05 PM

    I think both look fine, you're not huge btw, you look just fine. :) Good luck!

  • VintageWife
    November 13, 2012 at 4:05 PM
  • catholicmamamia
    November 13, 2012 at 4:06 PM

    I like the second one better.... and you are not fat, you are beautiful!

  • haleykj
    by haleykj
    November 13, 2012 at 4:11 PM
  • jconney80
    November 13, 2012 at 6:19 PM
    I like the second one the best!
  • jconney80
    November 13, 2012 at 6:22 PM
    And seriously it's so much harder to have time to eat well and exercise when you add another kid to your life!! When I only had two kids and was pregnant with Grace I hiked my entire pregnancy. After I had her.... Pffft!! I have no time at all. Of course if she slept it would be a different story!!

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