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SweetLuci
Confidence
October 7, 2012 at 4:10 PM

 Are you confident? Is your daughter?

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  • SlightlyPerfect
    October 7, 2012 at 4:22 PM

    Yes, we both are.

    But confidence is skills-based, is honesty-driven, and varies, so (for me; DD is only 3) while my level of confidence changes based on my assessment of any present stimuli, the confidence I have in myself and ability to reason and think is steady and stable. But I think one could make the argument for that actually being self-esteem and not confidence.

  • slw123
    by slw123
    October 7, 2012 at 4:39 PM

    Yes, I think we both are.

  • elasmimi
    October 7, 2012 at 6:18 PM

    I am confident about some things, others not so much. My 6 y/o thinks she can do anything!

  • LOswald0314
    October 7, 2012 at 6:21 PM

     Mostly, yes.  My DD is only 16 months but I'll do my best to make her confident.

  • JoJoBean8
    October 7, 2012 at 7:24 PM

    My dd is definitely confident. Some days I am and other days I am full of self doubt. 

  • copperswifey
    October 7, 2012 at 7:40 PM

    I am not the most confident person. I have one daughter that is very confident and the other one is more reserved :)

  • Bob192
    by Bob192
    October 7, 2012 at 11:18 PM

    I am most of the time, sometimes I think she is over confident.  I think she will be a strong leader one day.

  • mommythree0508
    October 7, 2012 at 11:19 PM


    Quoting slw123:

    Yes, I think we both are.

  • .Angelica.
    October 8, 2012 at 12:36 AM

    i am not as confident as i should be. and my dd is 9 months.

  • SweetLuci
    October 10, 2012 at 9:40 PM

     I think many people use the two terms interchangeably, but my understanding of the terms if that self-esteem refers to how you feel about yourself overall; how much esteem, positive regard or self-love you have. Self-esteem develops from experiences and situations that have shaped how you view yourself today. Self-confidence is how you feel about your abilities and can vary from situation to situation. I may have healthy self-esteem, but low confidence about situations involving  physical endurance.

    Quoting SlightlyPerfect:

    Yes, we both are.

    But confidence is skills-based, is honesty-driven, and varies, so (for me; DD is only 3) while my level of confidence changes based on my assessment of any present stimuli, the confidence I have in myself and ability to reason and think is steady and stable. But I think one could make the argument for that actually being self-esteem and not confidence.

     

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