strict moms that know how to dicipline
I have a question for you who came in my sense yesterday after i chat here a littelbit. I told one mom that i had to spank Janette and why and her first reaction was to ask me "oh are you sad about it"?
Well i think about a moment and answhered no i am not that. It was deserved and so why i should be sad? I think back in time and the answhere was always the same. No i am not that if i our my hubby has to spank one or both of our childs. If my childs are sick or if they hve pain doe to an accident i am really sad and i am really suffer with them. But if they have pain because there bum was red not.
So my question to you. Feel you sad if you or your hubby give a spanking? I am coldheart because i only think such "good they have gotten what they deserve"?
LG Manuela
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You are NOT coldhearted. My reaction to spanking one of my girls was exactly like yours. They knew the rules and they broke those rules, so they got exactly what they deserved. All their crying and dancing didn't change that one bit.
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I agree with stpmom too as I also believe spanking is a necessary part of raising children and it is a lesson learned every time it is done even though it may take time for it to sink in . In my experience a disciplined child learns self- discipline and self-responsibility so I have no qualms at all at giving a punishment when it is earned . My girls are at an age when they know the rules and what is expected of them . The drama queen performances I take in my stride !
Janet.