I have a question for you who came in my sense yesterday after i chat here a littelbit. I told one mom that i had to spank Janette and why and her first reaction was to ask me "oh are you sad about it"?
Well i think about a moment and answhered no i am not that. It was deserved and so why i should be sad? I think back in time and the answhere was always the same. No i am not that if i our my hubby has to spank one or both of our childs. If my childs are sick or if they hve pain doe to an accident i am really sad and i am really suffer with them. But if they have pain because there bum was red not.
So my question to you. Feel you sad if you or your hubby give a spanking? I am coldheart because i only think such "good they have gotten what they deserve"?
by janet116September 18, 2012 at 9:52 PMI agree with stpmom too as I also believe spanking is a necessary part of raising children and it is a lesson learned every time it is done even though it may take time for it to sink in . In my experience a disciplined child learns self- discipline and self-responsibility so I have no qualms at all at giving a punishment when it is earned . My girls are at an age when they know the rules and what is expected of them . The drama queen performances I take in my stride !