DH and I planned to have our children be 2 years apart in age, that way they're not so close we're easily overwhelmed but not so far apart in age that they're not close to each other. Well, I would've needed to conceive approximately 2 months ago for that to work out the way we planned; we hadn't even been trying because our son's birth was very complicated (he almost died, and stress from fighting his ex in court played a part in that) and we're STILL fighting DH's ex in court. We were talking about it last week and I told him I'm sick of our family being on hold because of her and us having to jump every time she says anything. The next day he said I was right, that we needed to stop holding everything off because of her. Honestly, the reason we talked about that aspect was because we wanted to "do yoga" (our term for what goes on in the bedroom :-P ) but in the midst of us moving into a new place, we somehow lost my birth control. I gave him fair warning that I'd lost it, which is why we had this conversation (wouldn't have felt right not telling him I hadn't taken it in a couple days).
Well.... guess what?? We officially found out tonight: I'm pregnant!!!!
Only problem is he's still at work. Last time we found out I was pregnant, I called him at work. I want to see his face this time, though. Is it wrong to wait till he gets home (which shouldn't be later than another hour)??
by ScrChk23October 17, 2012 at 8:30 AM
I would wait.