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Stop having kids!
by Anonymous
April 20 at 4:43 PM

Here is a little backstory. My dd was 18 when she had my grandson, my stepdaughter was 16, neither one had met the other until both boys were 5. My dd didnt go on to have more but is now planning a second child when her son turns 8 next year, my stepdaughter waited until her ds was 5 to have her second but has now gone on to have 2 more and is pregnant again, all have different fathers.

Now, last night my step daughter was here, my dd stopped by as well and asked me if I could watch her ds tomorrow (tonight) so she and her husband could go to a concert, I said sure. My sd asked why I dont watch her kids so she and her new boy of the week could go out. I told her I would watch her oldest but I am not doing diapers. All of her younger kids are under 3. She started arguing with me and I finally snapped telling her to stop having kids if she really wants people to watch them.

I feel bad but I've kept my mouth shut about it too long and it came out without me thinking.

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  • Firetruck27
    April 20 at 4:45 PM
    You dont look good here
  • Talkingheads
    April 20 at 4:46 PM
    I dont blame you but what did your dh say
  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    April 20 at 4:46 PM
    You're right
  • Cajunqueenslsg8
    April 20 at 4:46 PM
    Another monster step child post.
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    April 20 at 4:46 PM

    I got nothing.   I don't know why you had to snap. All you had to say was "I don't do diapers' anymore.   

  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    April 20 at 4:46 PM

    after I told him what happened he said "good, at least someone told her"

    Quoting Talkingheads: I dont blame you but what did your dh say


  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    April 20 at 4:47 PM

    shes not a monster. she just makes stupid choices.

    Quoting Cajunqueenslsg8: Another monster step child post.


  • Anonymous 4
    by Anonymous 4
    April 20 at 4:47 PM
    She apparently has no problem getting out without you watching her kids if she’s sleeping around that much.
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    April 20 at 4:47 PM

    she continued arguing with me.

    Quoting Anonymous 3:

    I got nothing.   I don't know why you had to snap. All you had to say was "I don't do diapers' anymore.   


  • Talkingheads
    April 20 at 4:48 PM
    Sure she does. She set a reasonable boundary.

    Quoting Firetruck27: You dont look good here

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