Here is a little backstory. My dd was 18 when she had my grandson, my stepdaughter was 16, neither one had met the other until both boys were 5. My dd didnt go on to have more but is now planning a second child when her son turns 8 next year, my stepdaughter waited until her ds was 5 to have her second but has now gone on to have 2 more and is pregnant again, all have different fathers.
Now, last night my step daughter was here, my dd stopped by as well and asked me if I could watch her ds tomorrow (tonight) so she and her husband could go to a concert, I said sure. My sd asked why I dont watch her kids so she and her new boy of the week could go out. I told her I would watch her oldest but I am not doing diapers. All of her younger kids are under 3. She started arguing with me and I finally snapped telling her to stop having kids if she really wants people to watch them.
I feel bad but I've kept my mouth shut about it too long and it came out without me thinking.