We found out that BM had a 40 year old room mate. At first DH though he was probably with BM. Turns out that him and SD were together at her moms house. BM thought there was no issue with it. She says "love is love" and SD16 is more than old enough to know what she wants. She says that her and DH had an age difference so he shouldnt judge. Their age difference is 5 years and she was 21 when they met. That isnt even close to 16 and 40.
She allows them to share a room. There is nothing illegal about it so DH couldnt call the police. He did try to take it to court and even though the judge didnt like the situation there was nothing illegal about it and he was not going to take custody away from BM for it.
Well DH told me he had a surprise for me. He took me on a drive and when I saw it I was surprised. He told me that he felt everyone should know about this guy. That if he couldnt do anything legally he could at least spread the word that this man was dating a 16 year old.
It is just a picture of him and says "This 40 year old man is dating a 16 year old". He said legally there was nothing wrong with it. I feel it is pretty drastic but I know he wants everyone to know what this guy is really like. In the community he is well known and well liked. I bet most would not like him as much if they knew what he was really like.
ETA: I know people will ask but I wont post pictures. I am pretty sure the billboard company is only in our town and people will know where we live then so I am not going to post anything.