My fiancé told me he would leave me if I didn't lose weight. My son is now 18 months old and I haven't ever lost the weight I gained in pregnancy. I work out 5-6 days a week. I eat relatively healthy, but it's hard because he won't eat healthy and expects me to cook him a "normal" meal and then fix something healthy for myself. I think he is being an asshole, have your men ever told you this?!