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My Confession: DH is NOT My True Love
by Anonymous
March 26 at 1:19 PM

I had real love when I was 20.

We both messed up, multiple times, and ended the relationship.

We still both know, almost ten years later, that we are soul mates.

However, he is a sex offender and I have children.

He would never hurt children, his charges are crap, but still, I am not willing to give my children to my ex-husband, as would happen if this man and I were to get together.

I am married, and I do love my husband, but I honestly don't feel that we are meant to be.

I will stay with my husband, until one of us is dead, I know he loves me and feels that I am his soul mate, but I just can't return that feeling.

So, for now, and maybe forever, I choose not to have my true love. My kids are just more important, and I won't break a second set of wedding vows.

AMA.

Replies

  • Mrs-Somerhalder
    March 26 at 1:20 PM
    Are you sure that you aren't just looking at him through rose colored glasses?
  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    March 26 at 1:20 PM

    I was never head over heels in love with my husband. I do love and respect him.

  • firebird78
    March 26 at 1:21 PM
    What's his charge for exactly?
  • AZHOTMOM
    March 26 at 1:22 PM

    Like the pp said, are you sure you are really seeing him? that its not just a feeling of nostalgia that he gives you?

  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    March 26 at 1:23 PM

    I hear of that same situation quite often.  It's a shame to settle for less when life is so short.  Yet, commendable that you are putting your kids and husband before your own self.

  • Anonymous 4
    by Anonymous 4
    March 26 at 1:23 PM

    I love my husband but he is not my "soul mate" a guy I dated before my husband was we dated for 5yrs and unfortunately life got in the way I moved we tried to make it work.i met my husband got pregnant and married.i still talk to my ex and we both have told each other we are still in love with each other but life got in the way.if I could change if I would in a heart beat.

  • jjames1990
    March 26 at 1:24 PM
    No questions. I hope that you find happiness.
  • Bubbie0809
    March 26 at 1:25 PM
    What is true love? Are you sure you aren't seeing him thru rose colored glasses?
  • Anonymous 5
    by Anonymous 5
    March 26 at 1:25 PM
    I love my husband but no my dh is not my soul mate. Had I had not gotten pregnant with our first we would both be in different places. I would not trade my children for anything
  • Jacqalyn
    March 26 at 1:25 PM
    Does your dh know that in your heart, he isn't the one? Don't you think that it would be fare to him to have someone not only love him but be in love with him and only him?

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