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Cleaning to get married Update 1&2
by Anonymous
March 19 at 6:14 PM

I know most of you are rude mean and annoying at times , But I need Help ! OK SO wants to marry Me but he says he won't till I get The house House Decluttered and anything thing not being used or Old to small/big is to be removed ect . His reason is we shoud have a clean slate to live from once married .Also his stuff is not off limits either .

How do I start ?

Do you think this is fair to do ?


*Update* The clutter is His and Mine from before we got together , My grandmothers stuff , My kids and his kids stuff all in a 3 Bed 1 Bath house . Its just a bit over Whelming for me . He Does help but he is often working but he trys his best .

*Update2* He came home and I explained what all you Lovely ladies were saying , He agreed that he should not have asked so much of me with out helping so , we are going to be doing this together . and we plan to either sell what we can or give to Good will Tax write offs are always nice 

Replies

  • RUMyMummy
    March 19 at 6:15 PM
    Why is it completely up to you?
  • Pandapanda
    March 19 at 6:15 PM
    Wtf?
  • Angelicembrace
    March 19 at 6:15 PM

    ..the hell?

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    March 19 at 6:15 PM

    B

  • LadyVoldemort
    March 19 at 6:15 PM
    It is fair. And it doesn't matter where you start. It needs to get done.
  • Sparklepants747
    March 19 at 6:16 PM

    How ridiculous. You can do it as a couple if he feels so strongly about it. 

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    March 19 at 6:16 PM


    Quoting RUMyMummy: Why is it completely up to you?

    he is away on lots of business trips 

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 19 at 6:18 PM
    Do it, start off with one thing, and de clutter that and then move on to the next. Give yourself a task each day to do a little.
  • MotherOF5Cuties
    March 19 at 6:18 PM
    It's taking for you to get married to have a clean house ?? I guess you got to start somewhere lol
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous - Original Poster
    March 19 at 6:18 PM


    Quoting Sparklepants747:

    How ridiculous. You can do it as a couple if he feels so strongly about it. 

    When he is home he does we skype alot while he is away

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