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had to fight back tears
by l.a.m.b
February 23 at 4:28 PM

 dss and i were looking through pictures.  we love looking through old photo albums together.  i have a ton, df has a ton, i made a special one for him. the one i made has picures of his bio mom and father. bio mom isntt in his life. he knows hes not my bio son. i just want him to know that he came from her this is what she looks like. i dont want him to think i ever held him back from knowing his roots.  he told me to light that album on fire because doesnt love her since she doesnt love him. i said that she is very sick and has lots of problems but we shouldnt light her pictures on fire because you may one day want to see them again.  he just pushed the photo album away and wanted to look at the old pictures of his grandparents when they were dating.  just broke my heart.  did i handle it ok?

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  • l.a.m.b
    by l.a.m.b
    February 23 at 4:29 PM

    BUMP!

  • Cmgmqmmom
    February 23 at 4:29 PM
    You did fine. That's a tough situation.
  • l.a.m.b
    by l.a.m.b
    February 23 at 4:29 PM

    BUMP!

  • l.a.m.b
    by l.a.m.b
    February 23 at 4:30 PM

     

    Quoting Cmgmqmmom: You did fine. That's a tough situation.

     thank you. i feel bad that he has an aweareness and hes so innocent

  • Radellia
    February 23 at 4:31 PM
    I think so. I think that it is reasonable of your son to not want the photos and it's absolutely ok for him to communicate his feeling about it. He may change his mind later in life and you made that a possibility for him by saving them.
  • l.a.m.b
    by l.a.m.b
    February 23 at 4:32 PM

     yea i packed them away and put them in the attic

    Quoting Radellia: I think so. I think that it is reasonable of your son to not want the photos and it's absolutely ok for him to communicate his feeling about it. He may change his mind later in life and you made that a possibility for him by saving them.

     

  • Danesmommy1
    February 23 at 4:32 PM
    You handled it right. Poor boy! He'll want the pictures someday.
  • l.a.m.b
    by l.a.m.b
    February 23 at 4:34 PM

     

    Quoting Danesmommy1: You handled it right. Poor boy! He'll want the pictures someday.

     thank you!  it just bothers me. im probably looking too much into it

  • l.a.m.b
    by l.a.m.b
    February 23 at 4:37 PM

    BUMP!

  • l.a.m.b
    by l.a.m.b
    February 23 at 4:37 PM

    BUMP!

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