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What DH told me tonight.
by Anonymous
February 16 at 2:51 AM
So quick quick, we have a 1 year old and have been together 5 years. He stayed late to watch tv and i went to bed earlier since i was really tired. Dd was in bed also. At around 1am he comes to bed and wakes me up. He wants sex but i was not it the mood since i was cranky and mad because he woke me up. I told him to leave me alone because i wanted to sleep. (He always wakes me up in the night for nothing). Then he goes to sleep but now im awake so i start annoying him back... He gets cranky and basically said he wanted to have sex but if i didnt want to then to leave him alone because he was going to bed. Whatever we had sex and then we are both wide awake. So he decides to watch this tv show on his laptop in bed and i told him i wanted to watch too and cuddle. He said "no". He told me to go get him chocolate milk and then we would cuddle, everybody would be happy he has his milk and i have my cuddling. I said to forget it and told him i wanted him to cuddle me because he loved me not because i got him stupid milk. Then i dont know i continued and said why its so hard for him to cuddle me... He basically said it was "old times" and that now (ever since we had dd) that im a moody big mouth who complains all the freaking time. It hurts... I feel like he doesnt love me anymore and just dont know what to do. Yes of course i agree i am moodier since dd was born but its because im more tired and exhausted and he never helps me out. So yes i complain, get mad. Hes always on his tv watching movies and never does anything with me. We bearly talk. The only time we spend together is when we have sex. Im sick of it. I feel like the love is gone. It wasnt like this before dd. we used to do everythhing together, watch movies together, eat together. Now nothing. Hes so distant. I know hes not cheating because hes always home. He works from home so i know he home almost all the time.

Replies

  • MelanieMans
    February 16 at 2:55 AM
    Why are you with him?
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    February 16 at 2:56 AM
    I dont know i just want to think there is faith somewhere to save this marriage

    Quoting MelanieMans: Why are you with him?
  • msjaxon
    by msjaxon
    February 16 at 2:58 AM
    Lawd
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    February 16 at 3:00 AM
    ??

    Quoting msjaxon: Lawd
  • MelanieMans
    February 16 at 3:00 AM
    You dont want to save your marriage to that asshole. He think you enjoy being moody, he think you choose to act this way? Its not your fault. I had my don 2 years ago and my emotions still run wild. You need a man who is a father and who has compassion for his wife. Not chocolate milk asshole.

    Quoting Anonymous: I dont know i just want to think there is faith somewhere to save this marriage



    Quoting MelanieMans: Why are you with him?
  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    February 16 at 3:04 AM

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  • AngelSinger
    February 16 at 3:20 AM

    I strongly urge you to consider marriage counseling. If he won't go, go without him. You might also want to talk to your doctor about your mood swings.

    That said...if dh acted like that, he'd be sleeping on the couch in the man cave. 

    Good luck. 

  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    February 16 at 3:29 AM
    Sucks. I kinda know the feeling. Lately it has been better for me, but we go thru tough times when I feel the same way you do.. Stay strong. Don't lose focus on dd and you!
  • Bonnie_
    by Bonnie_
    February 16 at 3:34 AM

    See  if you  can  get someone  to take  your DD for a weekend  and  maybe  yall can  go somewhere.  Even  if it a local   motel  for a change of scenery.  Tell him  you  want to start  having  date night  where  yall  HAVE to  go  out  to see a movie   or go for a walk  in the park  or   out to dinner  or a comedy club  or putt putt  golf   or bowling   SOMETHING.   If  he says no  then  tell him   well  then in that case  you  will make   plans  one  night a week with  your GFs  for a ladies  night out.

  • jenny3344
    February 16 at 3:46 AM
    He sounds immature and selfish. He needs to consider your feelings and needs too and understand that kids change everything. If he doesn't get this then he's really dumb.

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