So quick quick, we have a 1 year old and have been together 5 years. He stayed late to watch tv and i went to bed earlier since i was really tired. Dd was in bed also. At around 1am he comes to bed and wakes me up. He wants sex but i was not it the mood since i was cranky and mad because he woke me up. I told him to leave me alone because i wanted to sleep. (He always wakes me up in the night for nothing). Then he goes to sleep but now im awake so i start annoying him back... He gets cranky and basically said he wanted to have sex but if i didnt want to then to leave him alone because he was going to bed. Whatever we had sex and then we are both wide awake. So he decides to watch this tv show on his laptop in bed and i told him i wanted to watch too and cuddle. He said "no". He told me to go get him chocolate milk and then we would cuddle, everybody would be happy he has his milk and i have my cuddling. I said to forget it and told him i wanted him to cuddle me because he loved me not because i got him stupid milk. Then i dont know i continued and said why its so hard for him to cuddle me... He basically said it was "old times" and that now (ever since we had dd) that im a moody big mouth who complains all the freaking time. It hurts... I feel like he doesnt love me anymore and just dont know what to do. Yes of course i agree i am moodier since dd was born but its because im more tired and exhausted and he never helps me out. So yes i complain, get mad. Hes always on his tv watching movies and never does anything with me. We bearly talk. The only time we spend together is when we have sex. Im sick of it. I feel like the love is gone. It wasnt like this before dd. we used to do everythhing together, watch movies together, eat together. Now nothing. Hes so distant. I know hes not cheating because hes always home. He works from home so i know he home almost all the time.
You dont want to save your marriage to that asshole. He think you enjoy being moody, he think you choose to act this way? Its not your fault. I had my don 2 years ago and my emotions still run wild. You need a man who is a father and who has compassion for his wife. Not chocolate milk asshole.
Quoting Anonymous: I dont know i just want to think there is faith somewhere to save this marriage
See if you can get someone to take your DD for a weekend and maybe yall can go somewhere. Even if it a local motel for a change of scenery. Tell him you want to start having date night where yall HAVE to go out to see a movie or go for a walk in the park or out to dinner or a comedy club or putt putt golf or bowling SOMETHING. If he says no then tell him well then in that case you will make plans one night a week with your GFs for a ladies night out.