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would you let them go?
by Anonymous
January 29 at 7:49 AM
I woke up this morning to an email from my ex husband asking if he could take our kids to Jamaica. Him and his fiance want to get married there in 2015. He is asking now because the kids will need passports. The kids are 9 and 7. Part of me says no no no. I dont want my babies that far away. Part of me says do it because I might want to take them out of the country some day

Wwyd?

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  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    January 29 at 7:52 AM
    Bump
  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    January 29 at 7:52 AM

    It's a reasonable request. He will also need a letter of permission from you.

    10 and 8 are fine ages to go to the Carribean.

    Besides he could get a court order. If the kids want to go-let them go.

  • blue-heart
    January 29 at 7:52 AM
    I would let them go. They may not have the chance later.
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    January 29 at 7:53 AM

    Why not? As long as i knew his fiance and knew hed take care of the kids id let them.

  • UxorQuodMatris.
    January 29 at 7:54 AM
    Let them go.
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    January 29 at 7:54 AM
    His fiance is fine. She treats the kids well. They like her.

    Quoting Anonymous:

    Why not? As long as i knew his fiance and knew hed take care of the kids id let them.

  • Anonymous 4
    by Anonymous 4
    January 29 at 7:55 AM
    And....go read articles on how children, ESPECIALLY when it's the ex disappear in Jamaica, Brazil, Haiti.
    What was meant to be a happy vacay turns up 20 years later still no news.
    No thank you, I'd go with my kids.
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    January 29 at 7:55 AM

    id let them go then.

    Quoting Anonymous: His fiance is fine. She treats the kids well. They like her.

    Quoting Anonymous:

    Why not? As long as i knew his fiance and knew hed take care of the kids id let them.


  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    January 29 at 7:55 AM
    Thats what he said. In the email about writing a letter that its ok

    Quoting Anonymous:

    It's a reasonable request. He will also need a letter of permission from you.


    10 and 8 are fine ages to go to the Carribean.


    Besides he could get a court order. If the kids want to go-let them go.

  • Anonymous 5
    by Anonymous 5
    January 29 at 7:57 AM

    No I would not. My kids will never leave the country without me. I would never risk the chance that something may happen to them and I could not get to them in a timely manner. There are also too many stories in the news of the non custodial parent taking off with the kids and it becomes a nightmare. I just personally would not do it. But to each there own.

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