I know in my marriage which is now dissolved by Divorice. I never thought to ask my husband at the time if he was married in the past or had children. He only came out and told me because when I spoke to his sister about us getting married I was surprised that his parents weren't going to come to his only son's wedding. He came clean after a month over the phone. That he was married once before and then 5 days later that he was married 2wice before. He never told me about owing money and having several judgments out against him. He spoke about his second wife all the time when we were married. He still reminds me that he has never married in a church. What ever that means.
Yeah, we did. But obviously things and choices can change. Especially when your confronted. You can talk all day long but there is a difference between what you think you'd do in a situation and what you actually do. I realized that with mine about our relationship.