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When I first got together with DH...his ex said...
by Anonymous
January 23 at 10:47 AM

The first time I met my DH's ex wife she told me she hoped I liked cleaning up after him and doing everything in the house.

 

That has NEVER been the case.  We both work full time.  We both cook, clean, take care of kids, mow, and whatever else.  In fact...lately he has been doing way more because I had surgery.  I don't have to ask him to do anything.  He sees something that needs doing and he does it.  He interacts with all of the kids...his, mine, and ours.  Something else she said he never did.  His kids have always been super close to him. 

 

She was a SAHM so I would think she would take care of the home. 

 

But I just think it is funny that she thought she needed to warn me.  We work well as a team.  I don't see it changing.  It has been four years. 

 

Anyone else ever get a warning from their DH's ex?

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  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    January 23 at 10:49 AM
    Just that he would beat me. she was dead right.
  • ButterMeUp
    January 23 at 10:50 AM
    We both were eachothers first serious relationship.
  • ButterMeUp
    January 23 at 10:50 AM
    Wow, Im sorry for that.

    Quoting Anonymous: Just that he would beat me. she was dead right.
  • withsecond
    January 23 at 10:51 AM

    He didn't have an ex wife. 

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    January 23 at 10:51 AM
    Nope but I warned her lol, she left DH when she was pregant and kept baby away from him despite countless documented efforts (one of the reasons DH now has custody) until I became pregant and his daughter was 4.5 we had gotten together when she was an infant. I told her she was crazy if she thought he was going to go back to her.
  • bubble_guts
    January 23 at 10:52 AM
    We were each others first everything- so, no ex's lol

    Phew!
  • weeping_angel
    January 23 at 10:52 AM
    Maybe he learned his lesson the first time
  • Snapdragon88
    January 23 at 10:53 AM
    Honesty... He probably learned his lesson and decided to not repeat his mistakes with you. That's pretty much how life works. You learn from mistakes.
  • happymommy1105
    January 23 at 10:54 AM
    I told my ex's new girlfriend that he would beat her and to be careful.

    And he did.

    About six months later, his mug shot was in the paper, arrested for domestic violence.
  • jb0520
    by jb0520
    January 23 at 10:55 AM
    I was going to say this. Didn't mean she was wrong, he probably fixed what the first wife bitched about all the time lol

    Quoting weeping_angel: Maybe he learned his lesson the first time

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