Female: Is that you?
Husband: Yes it is.
Female: (a selfie of her ass in a bathroom mirror)
What would you do?
This female is programmed into his phone, she has a name. It's not some random # or spam message.
*** Supposedly I had an attitude problem when he got back from the store and he said, "I wish I had a fun wife." To which I replied, "Like Roshell? Is she fun?" And he said, "You tell me." And I then said, "She looks like fun in her picture."
He went straight to his phone and after putting his password in, the msg was right there in his face. I hopped in the shower to calm down and haven't talked to him yet.
Update... he said he and his buddy knew her from back in the day and she sent it because she had a baby and was joking that her ass was fat!!!!! Omg! Really dude??? Really?? I told him he just lost his wife over a whore! He's leaving tonight!!
I would take screen shots and email them to myself. I would pack a small bag for my children and myself, I would ask my mom if we could stay for a few days, I would leave and then tell my stbx that he had three days to move his shit out, because I would be changing the locks after that time period.