Wow I hope you're a troll. My half brother and sister's mom used to pretend the gifts my mom sent them were from her. It breeds a lot of contempt in a relationship. You should be thinking about what's best for your son. He has to deal with all of you. Quit thinking about yourself.
Oh good lord...another nutbag loose on this site...seriously.....between this post and the other mom with her "my kid isn't participating in HER tradition", I'm left wondering, are 10 year old girls having babies or grown women?
Ladies....can we ALL please grow up a little? Just a few years? And realize it's NOT about YOU or your EX or your INLAWS...it's about your KIDS...so suck up whatever issues you have and make this season pleasant for your KIDS! Who knows....you might even fool yourself into having a decent time too!