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I just signed the paperwork to get my tubes tied...
by Anonymous
December 18, 2013 at 3:53 PM
And im scared. Ive heard a lot of horrible stories about the pain afterwards and painful menstrual cycle ect ect. I know it is 200% what I want but im scared.

I should add that im having a csec so I expect recovery to be painful but im more concerned about how it will effect me afterwards.

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  • Elyce225
    December 18, 2013 at 3:55 PM


    I got mine done during my last c-section.

    It's the biggest regret of my life.  Not because I want more children but because of how different it made me feel.  

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous 2
    by Anonymous 2
    December 18, 2013 at 3:57 PM
    I had mine tied. On my way home I picked up 6w old twins a 3yo and a 4 yo. Got home and went back to life as normal.
    A few months later is when I started having issues. I was one of the unlucky ones who got ptls. I know over 20 women who have had theirs tied and I'm the only one who had ptls. I recently had them untied.
    I think having an issue after is rare. Do what you feel is best but don't be afraid of recovery because its an easy recovery. Good luck :)
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    December 18, 2013 at 3:57 PM
    Biggest mistake I ever made. Good luck.
  • bowribbonmama
    December 18, 2013 at 3:58 PM
    Eh. I had slight discomfort and bleeding after mine.
    Can't say what my periods are like though. I haven't had one since September 14 2012.
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    December 18, 2013 at 3:58 PM
    Thanks

    Quoting Anonymous: I had mine tied. On my way home I picked up 6w old twins a 3yo and a 4 yo. Got home and went back to life as normal.

    A few months later is when I started having issues. I was one of the unlucky ones who got ptls. I know over 20 women who have had theirs tied and I'm the only one who had ptls. I recently had them untied.

    I think having an issue after is rare. Do what you feel is best but don't be afraid of recovery because its an easy recovery. Good luck :)
  • Anonymous 3
    by Anonymous 3
    December 18, 2013 at 3:59 PM
    Did having them untied help the ptls?

    My recovery was vicious. I couldn't walk for 2 days. I've suffered every day since that God awful surgery.

    Quoting Anonymous: I had mine tied. On my way home I picked up 6w old twins a 3yo and a 4 yo. Got home and went back to life as normal.

    A few months later is when I started having issues. I was one of the unlucky ones who got ptls. I know over 20 women who have had theirs tied and I'm the only one who had ptls. I recently had them untied.

    I think having an issue after is rare. Do what you feel is best but don't be afraid of recovery because its an easy recovery. Good luck :)
  • Anonymous 4
    by Anonymous 4
    December 18, 2013 at 4:01 PM

    I've known people who have regretted it, not because of issues, because they say they are less then a woman. Me personally after this child is here, I am getting it done. I'm sure I don't want anymore pregnacies and babies... 

  • PaganKitty67
    December 18, 2013 at 4:01 PM
    It didn't bother me. Had some pain for a couple weeks. Periods have been lighter cramping a bit better or not at all some months. Hope you have a good outcome. Not everyone had a bad experience.
  • Anonymous 5
    by Anonymous 5
    December 18, 2013 at 4:01 PM
    did that help?

    I'm desperate.

    Quoting Anonymous: I had mine tied. On my way home I picked up 6w old twins a 3yo and a 4 yo. Got home and went back to life as normal.

    A few months later is when I started having issues. I was one of the unlucky ones who got ptls. I know over 20 women who have had theirs tied and I'm the only one who had ptls. I recently had them untied.

    I think having an issue after is rare. Do what you feel is best but don't be afraid of recovery because its an easy recovery. Good luck :)
  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    December 18, 2013 at 4:02 PM
    What do thry mean by less than a woman? I wonder.

    Quoting Anonymous:

    I've known people who have regretted it, not because of issues, because they say they are less then a woman. Me personally after this child is here, I am getting it done. I'm sure I don't want anymore pregnacies and babies... 

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