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Is it okay to sit on his lap?
by Anonymous
November 23, 2013 at 9:02 PM

Hello. I am married and we are going through a rough patch, so today I was crying to my bff (who is a guy) and he pulled me onto his lap to comfort me and just let me cry. I have been friends with this guy since high school and he is like a brother to me I NEVER thought of him as anything sexual. But  I was telling my sister how sweet he was in comforting me and she was yelling at me that a married woman shouldn't sit on their guy friends lap. I dont know if I did something wrong or if she is just being ridiculous. What do you think?

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  • Miss.MandyLynn
    November 23, 2013 at 9:03 PM

    as long as their is nothing sexual their i think it was a one time thing and it's not a big deal

  • sharonsolo
    November 23, 2013 at 9:03 PM
    It is perfectly fine if your Dh can do the same with his female bff.
  • JulyBabies
    November 23, 2013 at 9:04 PM

    People can make just about any type of touch between a man and woman sexual. You know it wasn't and I imagine he does too. Don't worry about what anyone else says.

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    November 23, 2013 at 9:05 PM
    You shouldn't be sitting on any other mans lap
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    November 23, 2013 at 9:05 PM
    Very wrong.
  • LokisMama
    November 23, 2013 at 9:05 PM

    Sounds like your sister is being seriously insecure and might need to tone it down a little.

    He's your BFF.  He's securely in the friendzone. Hell, I've sat on guy friends laps before, but they know better than to try anything.  

  • Trying4onemore
    November 23, 2013 at 9:06 PM

    Women that do not have friends that are their best friends that are male will never understand this and will assume that you're being a whore or that you're going to sleep with him or have some kind of sexual thought which is not the case at all


    my bbc is male and I have cried and he has done the same to me ,it felt great to cry and be held and feel Like someone really cared 



    I feel ya girl no harm no fowl

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    November 23, 2013 at 9:06 PM
    Agree

    Quoting sharonsolo:

    It is perfectly fine if your Dh can do the same with his female bff.
  • thejodigirl
    November 23, 2013 at 9:07 PM

    Why would you be on his lap instead of just an ebmrace? He's not you DH or daddy.

  • lovemercygrace
    November 23, 2013 at 9:07 PM

    There is NO WAY I would be sitting in another mans lap and their is no way another woman would sit in my husband's lap either, BFF or not. He would not allow it, and I would not allow a male to pull me into his lap either.

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