His alarm went off a 5:30, turned it off and went back to sleep.
At 6:24 I woke up and woke him up, he said "why can't I ever get up when my alarm goes off?" So I said "well, you turn it off and go back to sleep".
I told him that he had clean clothes folded on the table (I finished up that load of laundry last night after everyone was asleep so I left it on the table to put away this morning).
He goes to get his clothes, comes back and goes into the bathroom for a shower. He saw his towel on the floor and gets mad, accusing me of putting it there. I explained that I haven't showered since Sunday and I didn't touch his towel, I offer him a clean one...
Then he starts telling me I can't keep a man happy, I'm just like my mom, I'm a redneck woman, all kinds of stuff.
All this time I'm laying in bed trying not to cry, I'm 8 months pregnant and not feeling well anyways. He starts saying "you wouldn't even care if I walked out the door and never came back".
He went into the living room and came back with more insults.
Finally I told him I'm tired of it, Ds is trying to sleep and so am I. I told him he needs to quit and just go to work. He got mad and left the room, came right back in and said he doesn't have any cigarettes and we don't have the money to get any so he's just being mean and picking on me for no reason.
I said "well next time pick on someone your own size". He got mad and took his ring off and tried to play the victim. I told him he just needs to leave.
He left and came back, saying he forgot something.
He started crying saying he was sorry. I told him to give me Ds's carseat and leave.
Well, he never brought the carseat up but at least he left.
I'm tired of this! I hate being treated like c rap! He had been doing really well but the past week had been like this. I'm so tired of it :(
by AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 8:25 AM
um divorce the asshole?
no one is going to do it for you
by AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 8:30 AMVerbal abuse at its finest on his part. You deserve better!
I'm sorry :/
Guys can be such assholes! It's not fair how they turn on you when they're in a bad mood. Tell him he's lucky you do his laundry and all that...I refuse to do my so's... this was an issue at first but he got over it. I'm not his mother and he can take care of himself esp since he does hardly anything for me.
by AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 8:33 AM
yeah, whatta douchebag....i wouldnt' be married to that poor excuse of a husband and father...think of the example he's setting for the kids
by AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 8:34 AM
You both need to sit down and communicate.
by AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 8:36 AM
you sound like a pair of ignorant rednecks
can't afford to buy a pack of cigarettes, you're too lazy to shower, you're 8 months pregnant and you think his attitude is your only problem? Sweeeeet..
by AnonymousAugust 6, 2013 at 8:37 AMYou are the one who allows this type of behavior. He isn't going to change because he knows you will put up with it.
It also sounds like he is feeling unappreciated and unloved.