Im trying to help them work things out. Im such a frigging cunt. hes cheated before(i knew) but I hate that he is & I have hurt her. I dont know her, I dont want to tell her about the 1 time bj because Im trying to help them work it out.Yes I know Im awful but Im still trying to help them I recommended counseling & we should all get together to talk any suggestions besides me jumping off a bridge for being a whore?
EDIT#1 should I at least be friends with her we have some things in common(not him) & I would like to try to make it up to her & show her how sorry I am & it was a 1 time thing but my friendship or desire to have a friendship with her is real. We were already going to hang out as friends before that happened,
You need to stay out of it. You are not a counsellor, mediator and a part of the problem. If he is cheating, perhaps they shouldn't be together. Just because you feel guilty for aiding in his infidelity, doesn't mean you need to get involved.
i would stay out of it and not answer the phone or her texts. if you feel the need to say something it should be "this is b/t you two, so please leave me alone now"
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
July 14, 2013 at 7:59 PM
You are all right yes I thought I was doing good suggesting counseling & trying to help them work it out & yea 1 time i was part of the problem on a looong list of girls. I want to help her because she is such a nice girl. I dont know what to do to make amends to her she asked me not to talk to him & im not going to anymore.
Stay out of it. You'll only look worse in the end because of your relationship with him. You screwed yourself with your poor judgment. Get out before it gets worse. He's a Chester, so he's no good to any woman.