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porn should i be mad
July 8, 2013 at 9:40 AM

I'm pregnant and am having somewhat of a difficult pregnancy, last night i was having pain and pressure and my dh comes into the room and asks if we could have sex, i told him do you really want to chance it? so he gets up, shuts the door and when i get up a little later he is watching porn, now i know that porn isn't really a big deal but i got hurt and pissed and was like shouldn't you be concerned about how i'm feeling instead of watching porn? should i be mad or just be like whatever?

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  • Apgsteenmommy
    July 8, 2013 at 9:42 AM
    Yes that's so abnoxious and rude
  • lalaballet
    July 8, 2013 at 9:42 AM
    Most everyone will say it is fine. I would be pretty upset personally. I have my reasons.
  • MaNdYbEaR2010
    July 8, 2013 at 9:42 AM
    Did he know you were in pain? Are you in pain often?

    It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new.

    Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.

    Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.
  • IlovemyArron
    July 8, 2013 at 9:44 AM
    I know I would be very upset and hurt
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    July 8, 2013 at 9:44 AM
    Did you snap at him? Did he know you were in pain at that moment?
    He probably felt rejected.
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    July 8, 2013 at 9:45 AM
    No reason to be mad. He needed to get off.
  • Moe1521
    by Moe1521
    July 8, 2013 at 9:45 AM
    If the pain wasn't normal and he wasn't trying to help make it better, I'd probably be pretty upset.

    On the other hand, if the pain is somewhat normal, I'd at least try to find the silver lining of the situation by saying at least he came to you first instead of going straight to porn.
  • momto2crazykids
    July 8, 2013 at 9:45 AM

     i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs


    Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:

    Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?

    It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new.

    Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.

    Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.


     

  • momto2crazykids
    July 8, 2013 at 9:46 AM

     are you really saying that getting off was more important than me and the baby?


    Quoting Anonymous:

    No reason to be mad. He needed to get off.


     

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    July 8, 2013 at 9:47 AM

    Like an animal.  SMH


    Quoting Anonymous:

    No reason to be mad. He needed to get off.



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