I'm pregnant and am having somewhat of a difficult pregnancy, last night i was having pain and pressure and my dh comes into the room and asks if we could have sex, i told him do you really want to chance it? so he gets up, shuts the door and when i get up a little later he is watching porn, now i know that porn isn't really a big deal but i got hurt and pissed and was like shouldn't you be concerned about how i'm feeling instead of watching porn? should i be mad or just be like whatever?
i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs
Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?
It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new.
Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.
Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.