I'm at ny breaking point with my mother in law. it's been months since she's wanted to keep my son she stopped watching him because she's so lazy she didn't wanna chase him around or get up to feed him. yesterday i to have my car worked on so i her watch him i said please don't give him a bottle unless he won't go to sleep. i even packed him food. i get there to pick him up six hours later he's outside with a milk bottle an the milk was so warm and spoiled. (this isn't the first time she let his milk spoil) i ask what he had an she said oh he's been eating CRACKERS.. six hours of bad milk an crackers Yea you dumb cunt that's awesome food! I'm at my end with her i almost lost it an went bat shit crazy on her.this was more of a vent i don't have anyone else to let my anger out to.
Don't let her watch him anymore. Limit contact with her and your son's contact with her. If she cannot follow simple directions or even show any kind of care for your child whatsoever (to just feed him crackers all day and give him spoiled milk!), then don't even bother trying to MAKE her be responsible or care.