I try to get you talk to me. It is like pulling freaking teeth. We finally start talking and you start jumping my ass saying that I am getting on to you. I didn't realize asking questions so I know the whole story was jumping you. I will just shut the frank up then. Exactly what I am doing. Now you are trying to push my buttons and do things that I normally ask you to stop doing.
Yes. Earlier today he sent me a text that was saying that his boss wanted to talk to him about his job. That is rarely a good sign. I was trying to get him to tell me what happened and it just became ok whatever. They we got on a different topic and I asked him how that happened. It wasn't anything that he did personally but it was something we were discussing and all of a sudden "i was jumping his ass" I guess he really doesn't care about talking to me. I should give up.
Its frustrating isnt it? I went through that before, except now, ive tried to change my tone, and to ask open ended questions...not yes or no questions...make sense?
Sounds to me that hes guilty of something, or that he got into trouble and was embarrassed... Maybe? I would say choke it up to him having a bad day and dont cause yourself any worry wrinkles over this...maybe later you can try asking him why he got so defensive...