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theres something wrong with my dd.......
by Anonymous
April 20, 2013 at 2:52 PM

when my dd was 8 her father came back into her life in that time she turned into just bones she, wouldnt eat anything. right before she got into high school her dad poofed to find hs next slut, my dd gained weight and looked healthy, now my dd is 17 and her dad poofed back into her life and shes going down hill again, i think her dad is belittleing her into thinking shes to fat, she looks normal!!! her face is the way its supposed to instead of her cheek bones spikeing out,her collar bone isnt jutting out, her shoulders look round like they are supposed to but everything is starting to poke out again......i watched a video one of her friends put on facebook and it was of one of her guy friends touching middle finger to middle finger and thumb to thumb around her waist, they were compairing her to someone smaller then she is....idk what to do about this im afraid my dd is going to lose weight her dad will approve,then he'll dissappear again and she'll gain weight and feel good about herself and then he'll come back again and it'll start all over again and again and again......

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  • HappySquirrel
    April 20, 2013 at 2:54 PM
    Is there any way of finding out what he may be saying by talking to either him or your DD?
  • Logan_Bellasmom
    April 20, 2013 at 2:56 PM

    Talk to her.....get her in to therapy.

  • helema24
    April 20, 2013 at 2:57 PM

     make sure that he isnt belittling her or molesting her because those two things can cause a drastic weight loss in a child.

  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    April 20, 2013 at 2:57 PM


    Quoting HappySquirrel:

    Is there any way of finding out what he may be saying by talking to either him or your DD?

    no he only sees her on weekend and he takes her out to the mall or whatever

    and when i ask dd she never says anything

  • Hannahluvsdogs
    April 20, 2013 at 2:58 PM

    This

    Quoting Logan_Bellasmom:

    Talk to her.....get her in to therapy.


  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    April 20, 2013 at 2:59 PM


    Quoting Hannahluvsdogs:

    This

    Quoting Logan_Bellasmom:

    Talk to her.....get her in to therapy.


    iv done both,she wont tell me anything and the therapist says its nothing

  • Logan_Bellasmom
    April 20, 2013 at 3:00 PM

    then find a new therapist

    Quoting Anonymous:


    Quoting Hannahluvsdogs:

    This

    Quoting Logan_Bellasmom:

    Talk to her.....get her in to therapy.


    iv done both,she wont tell me anything and the therapist says its nothing


  • Anonymous 1
    by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster
    April 20, 2013 at 3:01 PM


    Quoting Logan_Bellasmom:

    then find a new therapist

    Quoting Anonymous:


    Quoting Hannahluvsdogs:

    This

    Quoting Logan_Bellasmom:

    Talk to her.....get her in to therapy.


    iv done both,she wont tell me anything and the therapist says its nothing


    she been to 4 different ones, they all say the same thing "nothings wrong shes just going through puberty" or "nothings wrong its just normal teen stuff"

  • alex815
    by alex815
    April 20, 2013 at 3:06 PM
    Talkl t o her and help her. It is very important. Communication is very important Right now do whatever it takes.

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