I'm in need of serious help.(divorce may be only option) :(
April 7, 2013 at 2:44 AM
If you allow your husband to watch porn. Move on now.
My husband has always had his problems with porn. I mean to the point of watching it multiple times a day. Even jacking off to it in the bathroom at his job. And then refusing to have sex with
Now it's escalated to a whole new level and he is looking up prostitutes in our area and jacking off to them.
I really just have no idea where to go from here. He has hurt me pretty bad this time. Then when I proceeded to wake up and get out of bed after arguing with him because he looking the shit up. He replied with "fine I'll just go fuck one of these bitches"
Im sorry your going thru that...i can only imagine what it feels like...maybe try counsuling ?if hes already thinking it and much more telling you hes gonna have sex wt them...hes not far from doing it :/if you go to church maybe try counsuling wt your pastor,when me and my husband have rough patch we talk to our pastor and it really helps...i hope it all works out.God bless u.
I am not an expert, but to me, he sounds like he has a sexual addiction. Has he had any type of counseling? If not, I would highly suggest it. You may also want to see someone. It can be a safe place where you can vent, possibly learn techniques to help yourself and your dh, decide whether you even want to be married, etc. Good luck.
I don't know if I have any advice. In our home, we do not agree with pornography either. It can really upset a family.
I will pray for you and your husband!!!
by Anonymous 2
April 7, 2013 at 2:50 AM
I'm sorry. That's not ok. I don't care about porn, but its not a problem for us. I think you need to go get some individual counseling for yourself. He, obviously, needs help dealing with whatever it is that's going on with him. But, you need help for you, first. Talk to someone. Maybe divorce is the right thing, but you need some help in figuring it all out.
I'm okay with porn, but that's really over the top. Sounds like a sex addiction. Therapy or leave.
by Anonymous 3
April 7, 2013 at 2:56 AM
Ok, I don't give even a small crap about my husband watching porn but I read your post anyway.
The way your husband is behaving is way beyond normal porn watching. He has a sex addiction and needs treatment to recover.
Before you divorce him...If you love him and think he is capable of treating you with respect...you need to give him an ultimatum and stick to it.
"Get help for your addiction or I will file for divorce." would be a great one.
No ome deserves to be treated with such disrespect. The way he is behaving is absolutely unacceptable.
I'm sorry Mama. I hope he gets help.