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misanutz
Would it be creepy?
March 30, 2013 at 9:37 PM

I have had several misscarriages and we had chosen a couple girls names before we  lost the pregnancy and now I am pregnant again and we found out that it is a girl. Would it be weird or creepy to use one of the names that we had chosen with the previous misscarriages? I am not sure how I feel about it but the hubby really likes one of the previous names.

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  • mariesmama
    March 30, 2013 at 9:38 PM

    why you havent used those names yet and my condolences

  • misanutz
    March 30, 2013 at 9:39 PM

    By the way we had chosen Alona or Kiara 

  • Octobersmom
    March 30, 2013 at 9:39 PM

    To me, no, but I don't view miscarriages as real babies.  I'd think that if you consider yourself a mother to those lost fetuses then it would be weird to do it.  Sort of like having a child die and birthing another whom you name the same thing.

  • divinedimension
    March 30, 2013 at 9:39 PM
    I'd do it. Shows respect for the child who passed
  • delilahsmom1177
    March 30, 2013 at 9:40 PM

    If it feels right go ahead. IMO it just means that soul has come back to you.

  • misanutz
    March 30, 2013 at 9:48 PM


    That's what the hubby said but still unsure

    Quoting divinedimension:

    I'd do it. Shows respect for the child who passed



  • misanutz
    March 30, 2013 at 9:51 PM

    BUMP!

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 30, 2013 at 9:52 PM
    When did your miscarriages occur? Have you used the names for any of the lost babies?

    I have lost two babies far enough along to tell the gender and I named them and would not use the names for another child. I also had name ideas for babies I lost much earlier and I'd have no problem using those.
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 30, 2013 at 9:52 PM
    When I had my miscarriages I just thought they didn't stick and came when the time was right. I would use the names.
  • misanutz
    March 30, 2013 at 9:55 PM


    I have had 9 misscarriages over the last five years and because we never made it long enough to find out the sex, so I did not chose names. But these are name we would have used had it been a girl. Do think it would be weird to use them now?

    Quoting Anonymous:

    When did your miscarriages occur? Have you used the names for any of the lost babies?

    I have lost two babies far enough along to tell the gender and I named them and would not use the names for another child. I also had name ideas for babies I lost much earlier and I'd have no problem using those.



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