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Anonymous
Why did you ladies have babies with losers? CS
by Anonymous
March 22, 2013 at 4:14 PM

how in the hell is a grown man only paying $50 a month for a child? Why did you date a man with no real job or money? I just do not understand. I made sure that any person I dated, was financially stable. If me and Hubz split today, he'd have to pay me over $1000 for one child. Why? Why would you have a baby with a broke ass dude?

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  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 22, 2013 at 4:17 PM
    When we were dating, he was making $15/hr, working 60 hours a week.

    7 years later, Meth, heroin and whatever else.. He pays less than $3.00/month. Oh well
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 22, 2013 at 4:19 PM
    Who has time to worry about what someone else is doing with their life?.
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 22, 2013 at 4:20 PM

    Some weren't losers when they were together and turned into losers later on.  Some were "accident's" others just don't care. My cousins ex only pays $25 a month for 2 kids, though I don't think he has paid in a few years.  He was a loser when they met...she seems to be attracted to losers seeing as her current DH is just as mucha loser as her ex. 

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 22, 2013 at 4:21 PM
    Shit happens. Life happens. Lose jobs. Go broke. It can happen to good people.

    Plus not everyone has dated these losers, only fucked lol everyone has a lapse in judgment at some point.
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 22, 2013 at 4:22 PM

    mine wasnt a loser when i met, married and reproduced with him. then we moved across country to be near his family. they owned a bar...turns out he was an alcoholic :(

  • vindicated
    March 22, 2013 at 4:22 PM

    i didnnt sit there and say " hey, your gonna become a meth addict in a year, lets get pregnant!"

    he had his own business for fucks sake.

    OR- " hey! you will lose your mind in 5 years! lets procreate!"

  • JessT5280
    March 22, 2013 at 4:23 PM

    Ha! 

    Because that's exactly how it happened. Riiiight.  

  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 22, 2013 at 4:23 PM
    Didnt know it was under the table work. he get close to 15 a hr at one job and 200 a night at another.
  • LadySlimm
    March 22, 2013 at 4:23 PM

    My ex husband and I were not broke when we had our 3. We never were on PA, had plenty of savings.

    I leave him, he is suddenly "disabled" and can't work, so he gets out of paying CS.

    Get the facts before you judge. Seriously. 

  • Blue_Spiral
    March 22, 2013 at 4:24 PM


    I didn't realize he was a loser.

    I was young and extremely naive and inexperienced, but of course, I thought I knew what I was doing lol. 

    He does work, he just works under the table and doesn't give me any of the money.

    When we lived together I made 10 an hour and he made 12 an hour.

    He is currently making 12 an hour. He'll offer to send it and then doesn't.

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