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my dd's school bus driver has diagnosed her dyslexic.....**edit***edit2 Talked to teacher
March 20, 2013 at 8:41 AM

so I am waiting with my kids for my dd's bus to come this morning in my van. I have to leave immediately after dd's bus comes to get ds to school on time. The bus comes and we are about to take off when my dd gets off the bus and tells me her bus driver wants to talk to me. I go over there and she proceeds to tell me that she has noticed Ivy is having great difficulty reading and because of that, she has placed her with an older child to sit with so the other kid can tutor my dd. She also said that Ivy is dyslexic and she has a friend that makes flash cards if I am interested. Funny thing tho, I just got Ivy's second trimester report card, which said she was reading above her grade level and the teacher is quite proud of her accomplishments. The teacher and I just had a talk a month ago about how Ivy just all of a sudden started reading and now she reads everything she can, the teacher was especially impressed how she sounds out 4 and 5 syllable words. The bus driver also told me she is making the girls write sentences on the rides to and from school and if they turn in a book report to her on Fridays they get to pick from a goodie bag. I am all for encouraging the girls to read and write, but I kind of feel she is over stepping the bounds of a bus driver. I told her I would talk to my dd's teacher about her reading, but should I mention to the principle about the sentences and book reports, and most importantly, the diagnosis?

***edit***   Ivy is just in Kindergarten. I home schooled her and her twin brother but I didnt feel comfortable after a year to have them try first grade. They are 7yrs old. She just clicked with the reading back in January. I spoke with her teacher at that time and she said that is how some of them do, it's like a lightbulb going off. My dd is not even close to dyslexic. What I dont get is why the bus driver thinks she is having so much trouble that she felt the need to talk to me about it, when I myself hear Ivy read every day and she has no difficulty at all. I can deal with her having books to read on the ride and offering the kids a prize if they give her a book report but seriously, if she is paying enough attention to my dd reading on a bus full of girls (she goes to an all girls school) how much attention is she paying to the road? I know just having my twins engaged in a lively conversation behind me it can be distracting. I am going to ask my dd how she feels about the "tutoring" and then shoot off an email to her teacher tomorrow. I will let you all know what she says, and thanks for the support and ideas on how to deal with this

***edit2...well, I talked to Ivy and the teacher... Ivy said it startedthe week before spring break (last week) when she brought her Backyardigan's book to school to read on the bus. She was having trouble seeing the words because the bus was so bumpy. She said the bus driver called her out on it and embarrassed her by making her sit with the other girl. I asked her why she didnt tell me and she said she was too embarrassed..

Talked to teacher this morning. She was totally floored by this and said Ivy was no way near dyslexic and was in fact her top reader in the class. She said that Ivy scores 100% every day in comprehension and often helps others that are struggling with phonics. She said she is doing great in her other subjects as well, and if the year wasnt so close to being over she would see about moving her to First grade. She mentioned that if I was willing, and worked with her over the summer that she could recommend they test her before school starts to see if they can put her in second grade

As for the bus driver, I am going to talk to her Monday and let her know I talked to Ivy's teacher and she is just fine. I am also going to ask her to not single Ivy out with the tutoring anymore as she does not need it and it embarrasses her.

Thanks for all the ideas and support you guys have given in this post :)

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  • shivasgirl
    March 20, 2013 at 8:47 AM

    bump, I really need some insight here...

  • bear.katten
    March 20, 2013 at 8:49 AM

    Thinkin' they can teach because they're a BUS DRIVER n shit!

    Lol no but in all seriousness, I wouldnt be taking educational advice from someone who drives a bus for a living! Speak to her teacher or her pedi.
  • macysmom
    March 20, 2013 at 8:50 AM
    That is too weird. All my DDs driver does is yell for them to sit down and shut up! Lol
  • shivasgirl
    March 20, 2013 at 8:51 AM

    lol, I know, I just dont know if I should report it... I mean it's good that she is encouraging the girls to read and write, but giving homework and making diagnosis?

    Quoting bear.katten:

    Thinkin' they can teach because they're a BUS DRIVER n shit!


  • askmommy
    March 20, 2013 at 8:51 AM
    Yes. You should mention this to the principal as she is not qualified to make such Dx.
  • Sister.Menses
    March 20, 2013 at 8:51 AM
    It's hard to read while riding in a car. It makes me sick...



    What does the bus driver know? Shouldn't she be paying attention to the road? Lol
  • Anonymous
    by Anonymous
    March 20, 2013 at 8:51 AM

    I would have told bus driver to F off and that she has no right to order my child to do thse things as well as give her some bull shit diagnoses. I would also call the transportation and report her.  

  • RiotousDigits
    March 20, 2013 at 8:52 AM

    uhm... I'd be on the phone with the district asking what credentials a bus driver has to be teaching my kid.

    Also, my kid would NOT be doing "book reports" for goodies for a bus driver.

    I would be asking for a new driver.  She's supposed to be DRIVING, not managing educations/assigning tutors or giving assignments.

  • Jcothrine
    March 20, 2013 at 8:52 AM

    yes i would tell the principal.....


    JC

  • gabyangy
    March 20, 2013 at 8:52 AM

    I'm thinking she is trying to be helpful plus think of it this way she is doing something productive with the time she is on the bus.  If your daughter is not complaining about it I wouldn't worry.  And if you daughter tells your other wise I would definitely be talking to the principal.  Good luck!

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