please no bashing... i'm so fucking scared. Go anon if you want to...just please please tell me what i am going to have to go through!!!!!
by katybayMarch 31 at 12:50 AM
There are so many couples like myself that would love to give your baby a full and loving life. Please Please ask yourself if you can live with what you are about to do. Can you live day in and day out with your decision? I lost my twins at 22 wks and I would of laid my life down for them. I did everything possible to stay pregnant with eating the right foods to alternative medicine to acupunture.
Please consider all of us Moms that would love and care for your baby. Allow your little one to have a voice and say.. Mommy please give me life. Placing your child with a warm and loving family.
God Bless you .. I will be praying for you and your decision you make. I will also be praying for the life of your child.
by AnonymousMarch 31 at 1:00 AMThis literally made my stomach turn.
You will wait in a room with other women, they will call you back and you will pay. They will then take you to do your ultrasound and they will determine how far along you are. They will have you watch videos and all that shit so that you know what to expect. They will then offer you to talk to a counselor. After you are done with that they will take you back to the "O.R" part. They will take you to a locker and have you undress and give you a gown and a blanket. they will then give you some pills to help your nerves and your body to prepare. you will then be sat down in a room with other women and wait your turn. You will be taken back and layed on a table. They will prop your feet and tell you to spread your legs..the doc will show you the "utensil" that will dilate your cervix and he/ she will give a shot in your cervix to help numb a bit..he will then dilate you and tell you that you will feel some pain and then you will feel tugging and some cramps. the loud machine will come on and a nurse will be there to hold your hand..it will be done in 5 min or less..they will escort you to a room with other women and you will sit on a "rocking chair" with a pad on it.. they will monitor your blood pressure and give you a pad with undies..usually after 30 min or so ( usually more if you get the shot for sedation before the procedure) they will give you some scripts, birth control and send you your way.