Ok so, my boyfriend told me today that he thinks he wants me to get a boob job or a boob lift. After having two children my breasts aren't so perky like normal girls my age. I will just be turning 20 this year in August. I am a little self conscious about my boobs being this way because i DO wanna look nice. But, i don't really want work done. Plus now that he's mentioned it i feel me insecure about it. I don't even want to take my shirt off in front of him. It kind of hurts my feelings even though it probably shouldn't. I don't know. Sorry i just had to get it off my shoulders =/
Don't let him touch them , play with them, or even see them. When he asks, tell him he obviously doesn't like them so you will do him the favor by removing them from his sight. He should get the picture.
I want a boob job, but SO said he still loves my boobs even after 3 kids. I'm only 26 but wanted to get it done since after my first at 20.
I'm sure they are much better than what you think they are!
It's not really something i would just do. If i did it, it would be for him. And yes, he WOULD pay.
by Anonymous 1
March 5, 2013 at 11:39 PM
I don't know. In one way it makes him seem like an asshole, but in another..I mean, can YOU admit that you feel the same way? I don't think my boobs look good. My DH I'm sure doesn't like them as much as perky, fake one's, so can I get mad at him for that? Lol. It's not like he's saying he will leave me, or anything. Just physically they don't look as good, and they don't to ME either, but I wouldn't like anyone making me feel like I HAD to get surgery, but in another aspect, he is at least showing interest in WANTING to look at you that way, and not just saying welp, not interested anymore, so I will just get my kicks off of other girls forever.
That's really mean of him to say that, if you have never expressed to him yourself that you would like one. =(( he is going about it totally the wrong way. I decided myself I wanted mine, and when I brought it up to my husband he told me he loved me either way, and that t didn't matter to him. Your man should support you no matter what. I'm sorry he made you feel even worse about it. =(
Decide for yourself. If you don't want it done, don't do it. You are very young, you may even have more children. Better to wait if that's the case.